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The Great Parenting Experiment

admin — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 00:16:58 +0000

Driving Mum and Dad Mad

Driving Mum and Dad Mad was shown in spring 2005. This 6 week series followed the experiences of 5 families as they worked to change their child’s behaviour by attending a Triple P group run by Professor Matt Sanders from the University of Queensland.

According to ITV figures an average of 4.23 million viewers watched “Driving Mum and Dad Mad” (range 5.1-4.1 million) and it was a top rating series at the 10pm time slot.

The Great Parenting Experiment in brief

The Great Parenting Experiment began in February 2005, two weeks before Driving Mum and Dad Mad went to air. Prior to the series, 500 families completed questionnaires on their child’s adjustment, family functioning and other family information. Because this was a trial to test the effects of self-directed parenting assistance, families were randomised to either a standard condition, where they were simply encouraged to watch the series, or an enhanced condition. Families in both conditions had access to Triple P tip sheets related to each episode of the TV series via the ITV website.

In the enhanced condition, families were mailed a Triple P self-help workbook, which contains specific guidance, activities and recording diaries for families to work through over a 12 week period. In addition to this, families in the enhanced condition were encouraged via weekly email messages to pay particular attention to specific features of each episode, and also had access to an email helpline run by Triple P in Brisbane.

Families completed the first round of follow-up questionnaires 12 weeks after the start of the series. Families were emailed and asked to complete the same set of questionnaires as they had prior to the start of the study. In addition to an email reminder, all families were contacted, reminding them to log on and complete the questionnaires.

Findings

* Families in both the enhanced and standard conditions reported significant problems with their child’s behaviour at the beginning of the study.
* Families in both conditions reported improvements on several of the questionnaires.
* Families in the enhanced condition were more likely to report improvements than families in the standard condition in:
o Child behaviour difficulties
o Parenting strategies
o Parental anger about child behaviours
o Parent disagreements about discipline
* For both conditions, over a third of the children with significant behaviour problems at the beginning of the study, had scores in the normal range after taking part.
* The greatest improvement was in the enhanced condition, where the mean number of child behaviour problems reported dropped into the normal range.

All families were followed up 6 months after the series. The figures confirmed that there were long term benefits from participating in the study, with child behaviour remaining improved over this time.

Conclusion

This study provides the first evidence that a television observational documentary series depicting parents participating in an evidence-based parenting intervention can have a marked effect on child behaviour problems and parenting practices. The positive effects from just viewing the program were enhanced when supplemented by providing individually tailored written and web based support.

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Single parents is a challenge

admin — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 11:48:35 +0000

Single parents are doubly challenged in caring for their children and their homes because they are literally doing the work of two people. But, it is very important for your children’s well being for you to take care of yourself. If you are stressed out, it will affect your children, whether you attempt to hide it or not. Stress and anxiety will present their ugly heads in many ways in your relationship with your children. So, take the time to take care of yourself. Not only will you be making yourself feel better; things will be much more pleasant for your children as well.

But, how, you ask, can you possibly find the time to do anything more? Your day seems as if it is stretched as far as it will go now? Relax, it is possible to do many little things that require a minimum amount of time, but will have lasting effects to brighten your day. First of all, there are some basics that you need to incorporate as good habits in your day. Pay special attention to diet, exercise, stress management, and getting a good night’s sleep. These, in and of themselves, will increase your stamina and make stress less exhausting to your body.

One of the most important things to remember in making time for oneself is that there are only 24 hours in each day, 16 if you allow yourself some sleep. Sixteen hours just aren’t enough to tend to yourself, your children, your work, your home and your friends! This is a very important principle to understand. You should not consider yourself a failure for not being able to do everything, all of the time. You have to realize that you are only human. You have limits, and you can only do what you are able to with the time and energy that you possess. Furthermore, you are not perfect. There are things that you will have to let go of from time to time. Just make sure that whatever it is that you find yourself giving up; do not neglect your own needs. If your needs go unmet, you have nothing left of yourself to share with your children. As parents, our most important job is to make certain that our children grow into well-adjusted adults. That is why it is important that we leave enough of ourselves intact to share with our children.

An important start in making time for oneself is by practicing time management. Effective time management can be an invaluable tool when a parent is attempting to juggle many different responsibilities. One way to organize yourself to more efficiently balance your day is to begin each day with forming a to do list. Then, after making a long list of things you would like to do, look at it and begin to prioritize. What needs immediate attention? What needs to be taken care of before noon? Before dinner? Before bedtime? What things can you persuade another family member or friend to help with, possibly? Once you understand what your priorities of the day are, accept that these may change as the day progresses, and it will be fine if they do, you can “go with the flow”. Learn to say “NO.” Stand in front of a mirror and practice it. Remember that you are doing this with your children’s best interests at heart.

The quality of the life you spend with your children is so much more important than what all you can manage to accomplish in a 24 hour span. Accept the fact that there will be dust bunnies lying around. Learn to live with a few dishes in the sink from time to time. So what if you buy a pizza instead of cooking that perfect meal? The kids will think they are eating grand if you include a side order of breadsticks!

In addition, here are some little things you can do for yourself that will brighten your day, lift your moods, and bring about a general feel of well being around your home. Remember, if you are happy, the pleasantness of your character is sure to rub off to those around you!

Learn relaxation, yoga, meditation, or whatever healthy coping skill allows you to relieve stress, tension, and anxiety. Take a walk, read a book, call a friend, take a nap. Allow yourself some private time each day, even if it is only a half-hour. Begin to develop an intimate circle of friends and family. Turn off the phone and allow your answering machine to pick up your calls. Do something you wouldn’t normally allow yourself to let your hair down to do — turn up your favorite music and dance, not caring who sees you and what they think. Cuddle up in your favorite chair with a good book and a glass of tea. Take a long, relaxing hot bath at the end of your day. Treat yourself to a manicure, a pedicure, or a massage. Begin a journal to write your stressors or worries into; then, once you close the book, refuse to dwell on them anymore during the day.

Allowing yourself the opportunities each day to get away for just a few minutes is an ongoing goal to work towards. Just remember, stressed out moms and dads create stressed out kids. Remind yourself of what is important. You are not perfect, never have been, and will never be. So, accept that and understand that the world will not come to an end if you are unable to do everything at once.

The Complete Lesbian and Gay Parenting Guide (Paperback)

admin — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 12:41:05 +0000

Gay parenting is a productive and positive decision, but author and lesbian mother Arlene Lev admits it isn’t always an easy one. With practical wisdom and advice, and personal real-life stories, Lev prepares gay parents for this endeavor with everything they need to know and everything they can expect while making their own significant and challenging mark on family life in the 21st century.

About the Author
Arlene Istar Lev, CSW-R, CASAC, is a family therapist who specializes in working with lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered people and their families. She is the founder of Choices Counseling and Consulting, which has been serving the Albany, NY, area since 1986.

This book is one of the most inclusive queer (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, etc) parenting manuals out there. I highly recommend it for LGBT parents and anyone thinking about starting a family. It is an engaging read, full of funny stories and information. It is also one of the only books I’ve read that has been truly inclusive of bisexual, transgender, genderqueer and gender-variant families as well as talking about butch-femme family dynamics. This makes it a far more relevant, inclusive and current books out there… Especially for trans and bi parents and prospective parents who have been completely disregarded by most queer parenting resources, books, and groups.

I appreciated the personal stories from various parents and the author’s clearly open-minded approach. She seemed less bent on proving to the conservative right-wingers that we’re the same as them, normal, etc… and more focused on talking candidly and honestly about the experience of being a LGBT parent and family. It gives a broad and realistic view of the struggles and joys of parenting in a homophobic world.

But this book has a few drawbacks – First, it is unfortunate that this book does not include much about parenting teenagers. It is geared more towards families with younger children and people who are considering parenting.

Secondly, some people will find her section on transracial adoption angering and alienating. Istar Lev’s approach to white families adopting children of color is incredibly misinformed – She seems very defensive and used biased and sometimes even blatantly inaccurate information to dismiss the concerns many people of color have about the wellbeing of children of color being raised by white families, especially in isolated mostly-white communities. Her claims about the origins of the concepts of race and racism are historically untrue, and her statement there are not enough suitable families of color to adopt kids of color is a factual error, as studies have shown that it is in fact racism in adoption & foster parenting agencies, and lack of outreach, that prevents kids of color from being placed in their own communities. This misinformation and the defensive tone sadly detract from important and necessary points about how white families whose children are of color can raise their kids with cultural pride and awareness and the skills they need to survive as people of color in a racist society.

Baby Tips for New Fathers Before the Baby Comes

admin — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 08:03:29 +0000

You really do not need any furniture for a new baby. You can buy stuff later when you know what you want.

Diaper changing tables are generally a waste of money.

Tag sales are a great place to stock up on equipment and toys — the best ones are in high income neighborhoods.

Soak cruddy used baby stuff overnight in a full bathtub with a cup of bleach added.

Due dates mean very little — this is your first lesson in not being in control. (You can expect comparable frustrations and uncertainties if you are planning to adopt, so you won’t escape this valuable instruction.)

Try to meet all your delivery care providers beforehand, including “backups.”

Some activities, like going to the theater or foreign travel, will be harder when the baby comes. Indulge yourselves now.

Learn good lifting technique. Your back is the first thing that will go. A squirming 10 pound baby is harder on your back than a 25 pound toddler who knows how to keep its balance.

If this is your first child, there is no way you can fully prepare yourself for what is about to happen. Try to relax, get some rest and don’t panic.

You can hear the baby’s heartbeat when it’s big enough by placing your ear against the mother’s lower belly.

The baby will seriously disrupt your love life. Talk about this now.

To learn how to deal with childbirth and the medical community, get a copy of Sense and Sensibility in Childbirth by Judith Herzfeld, Ph.D. You should also check out the midwife option.

You should buy a car seat before the baby comes. Some hospitals won’t let the baby out without one. Check up on the latest advice about how to use car seats safely, particularly if you have a passenger side air bag.

A Single Parent’s Guide to Financial Security

admin — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 01:07:54 +0000

A single parent multitasks all the time. Sometimes she’s the chef, other times the taxi driver or housekeeper, and she’s always the breadwinner, family psychologist and teacher. Managing a family, a household and holding down a job keep her plenty challenged.

If you’re winging parenthood on your own, you know it’s difficult to carve out time to pay the bills, let alone do financial planning.

Here are some suggestions for streamlining your financial life and building up your net worth:

* Establish a cash reserve. Everyone should have an emergency cash fund, but it’s especially crucial for a single parent. “A good rule of thumb is an emergency fund equal to three months of expenses, but your savings needs to ultimately reflect your financial situation,” advises Gayle Buff, a certified financial planner in Newton, Mass.
* If your job is secure and finances strong, then a home equity line of credit or open credit on a credit card is sufficient. Invest your extra cash more aggressively. However, if your job is unstable and your finances tight, then you need to tighten your belt and put away six months of living expenses.

The key to establishing a cash reserve is to be consistent.

Take Control of Your Finances
Healthy finances require that you pay attention to how you spend your money.

“Managing cash flow is difficult,” says financial planner Mari Adam, of Adam Financials in Boca Raton, Fla. “It can seem time consuming and overwhelming, but it’s time well spent. If you ignore your expenditures, money simply disappears.”

Set up a spending plan. Write down your short-term and long-term goals. Ask yourself how you can accomplish them. The first step is to evaluate your spending habits. Track your spending for three to four months, or look back over your checkbook and your income for the same period. Do you have any discretionary funds? Do you need to cut back your spending? Take the time to develop a spending plan.

At this juncture in life, the top financial goals should be to accumulate assets that will increase your net worth and your retirement savings. Pay yourself first through payroll savings plans and your 401(k).

Protect Your Family’s Future
Across the board, financial planners agree that single parents, in particular, need disability insurance and life insurance as a contingency plan to protect themselves and their children.

Long-term disability insurance overs your most valuable asset — the ability to earn an income. Yet, it’s the most overlooked insurance, explains Phil Behnen, certified financial planner with Polaris Financial Strategies in St. Louis, Mo.

“Not only is it vital for your financial health, but it’s inexpensive,” he says.

Check with your employer to see if you can pick up this coverage at work.

Life insurance is particularly important for single parents, especially if you are the sole supporter of your children.

Gayle Buff recommends purchasing term life insurance over permanent, or cash value, life insurance. Permanent life insurance, which combines insurance with an investment option, carries higher premiums, and is often too expensive for the amount of insurance you need, leaving you short-changed on coverage.

“The investment products are poor investing tools,” Buff says. “You’re better off buying term life insurance and investing the savings on your own.”

Estate and Contingency Plans Are Vital
Single parents should have a will to protect and provide for their children in case something happens. Your will names your children’s guardians and controls your estate — that is, everything you own from your house, bank accounts, investments, insurance and personal property to your retirement plans.

If you die without a will, the state becomes the executor. Bankrate’s Dollar Diva offers more details on setting up a will.

Single parents should also have a living will and a durable power of attorney. A living will expresses your wishes if you become terminally ill or incapacitated, and a durable power of attorney empowers someone you trust to carry them out.

Invest for College Early
The earlier you save for college, the more your money grows. Mari Adam highly recommends the state-sponsored Section 529 college savings plans, which grow tax-free.

Most incomes can’t heavily contribute to both retirement planning and college savings, so Adam recommends investing small amounts to both — just get started.

“A common investing mistake is to invest too much money under the child’s name,” says Phil Behnen. Parents who open investment accounts for their child may find these earnings produce a larger tax bill than expected, due to the kiddie tax. Plus, parents who opt for custodial accounts need to remember that their child can access this money when they turn 18 years old. They may or may not choose to spend it on its intended purpose.

Lastly, a large sum of money in the child’s name can hurt their chances for financial aid. This is one more reason to consider Section 529 plans, Behnen says, because they’re assets of the owners, typically the parents, not the child.

Invest Aggressively for Retirement
“Don’t invest too conservatively,” says Behnen.

Concentrate your investments in growth-oriented investments.

Take advantage of your company’s retirement program.

“The biggest mistake people make is they don’t participate in their company’s pension plan, and then lose out on the company’s matching contribution,” Behnen says.

He also recommends that you contribute to a Roth IRA. “Adults who learn to invest early,” explains Behnen, “don’t get used to having a higher income level to spend; they learn to live within their means.”

Pay yourself first! Financial planners agree that the most reliable investment strategy is an automatic debit from your paychecks into your investment accounts. “A good rule of thumb,” says Adam, “is saving 10 percent of your income, which includes your employer’s contribution.”

Here’s why you should diversify your investments for a stronger portfolio.

Make Your Money Go Further
“Take a look at your entire financial picture, and see if you can restructure anything to make it work better for you,” says Gayle Buff.

Consider your banking products: How much does the checking account cost you? Can you put your cash reserves in a more productive vehicle?

How about your credit cards: Can you get a lower rate? Perhaps you’d do better to pay off high interest debt with savings from a low interest bearing account.

Own a home? A refinance may be beneficial.

Be tax savvy. In this down market, you may be generating a taxable loss. Make sure you claim this on your income tax return.

The Single Parent Guide to Success

admin — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 00:49:58 +0000

Are you in a rut and want a change? Are you a single parent looking for ways to finance your education? This e-book is your answer. This book offers a simple strategy for obtaining money for college and contains over 100 websites on grants, scholarships, and loans. This book is especially designed for the needs of single parents (from 18 years old & up). Daryl D. Green has over 10 years’ experience of leading scholarship committees, developing scholarship criteria, and evaluating students for scholarships for community organizations. As a member of Generation X, Mr. Green is considered one of the savviest thinkers of his generation. He has given advice to families on such websites as Allexperts.com and About.com. Mr. Green is a nationally syndicated columnist, the author of several books, and has had more than 100 articles published globally. He has been noted and quoted by USA Today and Associated Press.

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Divorcing Parents Tips

admin — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 00:56:43 +0000

No step-by-step manual can give you a guarantee on how to raise kids blissfully through divorce. Every situation – and every family – is different. There are, however, some commonsense guidelines that may make adjustment a little bit easier.

Here are some suggestions to make the process less painful for your child. Parents will need to interpret them in their own ways; honesty, sensitivity, self-control, and time itself will help to begin the healing process. Be patient. Not everyone’s timetable is your own.

Encourage your child to talk as openly as possible about his or her feelings – positive or negative – about what has happened. Make that an ongoing process.

It’s important for divorcing – and already divorced – parents to sit down with their children and encourage them to say what they’re thinking and feeling. But you’ll need to keep this separate from your own feelings. Most often, children experience a sense of loss of family and may blame you or the other parent – or both – for what they perceive as a betrayal. So, you’ll really need to be prepared to answer questions your child may raise or to address concerns he or she may have.

Make talking with your child about the divorce and how it’s affecting him or her an ongoing process. As children get older and become more mature, they may have different questions or concerns that they hadn’t thought about previously. Even if it seems like you’ve gone over the same topics before, keep the dialogue open.

If you feel like you get too upset to be of real help to your children, ask someone else (a relative, maybe) if he or she can talk to your child about it. Group programs for children of divorce, often run through schools or faith-based organizations, are an excellent resource for children going through this process.

It’s natural for children to have many emotions about a divorce. They may feel guilty and imagine that they “caused” the problem. This is particularly true if they heard their parents argue about them at one time. Kids may feel angry or frightened. They may be worried that they will be abandoned by or “divorced from” their parents.

Some children will be able to voice their feelings, but depending on their age and development, others just won’t have the words. They may instead “act out” in angry ways or be depressed. For school-age kids, this is usually evident when their grades start to drop or when they begin to develop a lack of interest in activities. For younger children, feelings often are expressed in play, as well.

Many kids see a drop in grades and reduced participation in outside activities in the months prior to and the year after a separation. Although children may struggle with a divorce for quite some time, the real impact of divorce is usually felt over about a 2-year period.

It may be tempting to tell a child not to feel a certain way, but avoid that temptation. Children (and adults, for that matter) have a right to their feelings. If it seems that you’re trying to force a “happy face,” your child may be less likely to share his or her feelings with you.

Don’t bad-mouth your ex-spouse in front of your child, even if you’re still angry or feuding.

This is one of the hardest things to do. But it’s important not to say bad things about your ex. It’s equally important to acknowledge real events. If, for example, one spouse has simply abandoned the family by moving out, you need to acknowledge that that has happened. It isn’t your responsibility to explain the ex-spouse’s behavior – let him or her do that when he or she is with your child.

Try not to use your child as a messenger or go-between, especially when you’re feuding.

A child doesn’t need to feel that he or she must act as a messenger between hostile parents or carry one adult’s secrets or accusations about another. Wherever possible, communicate directly with the other parent about matters relevant to your child, such as scheduling, visitation, health habits, or school problems.

Expect resistance and difficulties in helping your child adjust to a new mate or the mate’s children.

New relationships, blended families, and remarriages are among the most difficult aspects of the divorce process. Of course, a new, blended family doesn’t eliminate the impact of divorce. The research is quite clear that children in these new families continue to experience problems similar to those who remain with a single parent. So, it’s important to assure children that they still have a mother and father who care for them.

Also, help your child to blend into a new family structure. The initial role of a stepparent is that of another caring adult, whom your child needs to respect as a responsible adult. You can’t expect your child to accept a stepparent as another parent right away, though – that will take time.

Seek support groups, friendships, and counseling. Single parents need all the help they can get.

Support from clergy, friends, relatives, and groups such as Parents Without Partners can help you and your child adjust to separation and divorce. It often helps kids to meet others who’ve developed successful relationships with separated parents – children can often help and confide in each other, and adults need special support through these trying times.

Whenever possible, kids should be encouraged to have as positive an outlook on both parents as they can. Even under the best of circumstances, separation and divorce can be painful and disappointing for many children. And, of course, it’s emotionally difficult for the parents, too. So it’s understandable that, despite their best intentions, some parents might broadcast their pain and anger.

But parents who can foster a positive adjustment and good times, even during difficult circumstances, will go a long way toward helping their kids – and themselves – adapt and move on.

A single parent’s guide to family camping trip advice

admin — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 23:17:31 +0000

There is nothing to bring you and your kids closer together as a family than to pack up the minivan and head out on the open road to go camping. You will get back in touch with nature, and more importantly eachother. (Provided you leave all portable electronics at home.) With the fast paced schedule of a single parents life it can be hard to feel like your really connecting with your kids, but take them camping and you will learn alot about eachother and reconnect all over again.

The first question you must ask yourself before planning your trip is ‘what kind of campers are we?’ The rough and tough primitive camper type who will hike for miles to find the perfect place to pitch a tent? If so, then you are already a pro and dont need much of my advice. This type of camper has to pack light. I cant seem to pack light and be prepared at the same time.

Therefore, I don’t do primitive camping. I bring everything but the kitchen sink. I pack a tent, a canopy, a portable cooking stove, cooking supplies in a locking storage tub, a lantern, flashlights, batteries, air mattres, air pump, sleeping bags, pillows, coolers, chairs, wood starter sticks, food (which must include smores ingredients)folding tables, and most importantly my own portable toilet for those middle of the night emergencies. (When I dont want to wander off and get eaten by a bear)

I seek out camping with toilets in the vicinity, and showers. I can only be so tough. I want my vacation to be enjoyable, and I must have food and water at my disposal to adequately enjoy myself. I also prefer to camp near natural water sosurces like rivers and lakes so we can play in the water or go tubing and so we can wash our dishes or even our bodies in it.

You must also take into consideration what type of activities you all enjoy together as well so you can wok those in to your trip. Do you want to swim or hike or explore or go horseback riding? Maybe theres something new the kids are interested in that you can do together during the trip. For example maybe an archeoligical dig or mountain bike expedition? Make your camping trip an adventure they will never forget.

Make it a team effort. Let your kids plan the trip with you and let each of them make a final decision on some part of the trip, so each child feels special and gets to feel responsible for a specific part of the trip. Make this a valuable lesson about responsibility, compromise, budgeting and even goals. Plan your trip months in advance and estimate costs. Get an large empty water bottle and encourage everyone to put their change in the jar to save for the trip. We count ours together one week before we leave and use this money for an extra surprise during the trip. Something fun we hadnt planned or maybe souveneres. One time we panned for gold at this little place on the road side on our way home. Teach your kids that planning ahead pays off in the long run and reaching for their goals can be fun and rewarding.

Have fun camping and remember what smokey the bear says only YOU can prevent forest fires!

by Chris Dixon.

Introducing a date to the kids

admin — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 23:04:14 +0000

Following the loss of a spouse through divorce or death, many custodial parents take some time off to heal before embarking on a new relationship. This allows the kids to get over the loss of a parent as well.

So when the remaining parent begins dating other people, he or she should introduce a new person to the kids with discretion and finesse. You don’t want to inadvertently overwhelm, threaten, or excite the kids with a new relationship, especially until you see how it’s going to work out in the long run.

1. Start slow. Get to know the new person in your life to see if it’s going to endure. Introducing the kids after a few weeks may be too soon, since many relationships naturally end or bond within a three-month period. Wait until you know your new romantic squeeze before getting the kids involved. This will help to protect their emotions and well-being in case the relationship doesn’t work out.

2. Take it easy. When the time for introductions comes, keep it low key. You may want to introduce the kids as you leave for a date. Or you could take your friend to a school event and make introductions afterward. Keep it short and simple at first to give the kids and your friend time to reflect on first impressions. Meet for lunch instead of hosting a long evening dinner. Let early impressions slowly sink in before inundating your kids with frequent exposure to your new friend.

3. Don’t overdo it. After your beau and the kids meet, space out their interactions. Don’t encourage them to get too thick right away. If the relationship doesn’t work, the kids may be devastated if they’ve formed an attachment to your friend, and it may feel like another loss. There’s no point in putting them through that needlessly. Let their meetings be few and fun until you see how things are going to work out.

4. Keep it simple. Avoid meshing the kids with your friends in high-tension situations. For example, there is no need to spend weekends together or take group vacations right away. An occasional night out or weekend event provides enough exposure to help acquaint everyone without overdoing it. Light entertainment rather than heavy involvement is the key to bringing all parties together.

5. Don’t force it. If your friend doesn’t care for children, or your kids, don’t insist on their spending time together. Conversely, if your children do not care for your new main squeeze, don’t push it. Allow them to maintain a respectful distance. With time, things may change. But if not, you will have a better indication of how to proceed with this glimpse into a future step-family situation.

Introducing children to new relationship interests is a delicate matter. Since so many step-families report later problems with child discipline and respect issues, it is important to test the waters gradually and respond accordingly. Some single parents choose to wait for a serious relationship until their children are grown. If you sense the potential for discord, this may be one of the options you’ll decide to explore.