Keep Your Child Safe By Keeping an Eye On Their Cell Phone Use
Date: 5:08 am | Placed in Family |You chose to buy your preteen/teenager a used cell phones, that’s not a big deal. Your child calls you on it when she/he is staying after school or going to a friend’s house. At home, she chooses to use her cell phone rather than the house phone to talk with her friends, which is nice because it keeps the land line open for you to use. She takes it everywhere she goes including the bathroom. You think to yourself that you’re glad your phone is not tied up. Suddenly, you have friends, neighbors and even school officials questioning you about your child’s cell phone use. You believe she is safe; but as her parent, should you be troubled?
What’s The Issue?
Start by asking yourself the following:
- Are you aware of what your child is talking about on their phone each time they talk on it?
- Do you know to whom it is they are speaking to when they are talking on it?
The reality is that it is nearly impossible to be aware of every conversation your child has on their unlocked cell phone. After all, they can use the phone anywhere they are. It’s highly possible that you don’t know all the people they are talking to, and they could even be talking with people that they’ve met online. If they are talking to somebody they met on the ‘Net, they can use the child’s cell phone to narrow down where he/she lives. The person could even try to get your kid to meet them somewhere. It’s for this very reason you need to be aware of whom your child is talking to when they are on their refurbished cell phone.
The same can be said for text and picture messaging. Did you know that texts can be easily posted to the Internet? For instance, if your child chooses to reveal personal information about you and/or your family through their text message, you will not have a way to prevent that information from spreading.
So What Can You Do?
The reality with cell phones and your children is that innocent subject matters or taking of pictures can spiral out of control quickly once they’re sent along the wire. You can’t stop it; there is no way to intercept or even remove them once they go viral. As a parent, you must do all you can do to keep your child safe. Thus, get in the habit if checking their phone regularly to see who they are texting, calling, and sending pictures to and what those messages include. You can also contact the local cellular customer service to retrieve all the data sent from your child’s phone. You can’t stop the information from being spread but you can narrow down who receives it.
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